When it comes to understanding the best way how to get your ex back, common sense rules. The problem is that common sense is not that common anymore. This is where I come in to help you learn common sense tips to win your ex back for good!
First of all, common sense should tell you that playing dirty and scheming to win your ex’s affections again does not work. Whatever is in the dark will always come to the light so they will one day find out that you were underhanded in winning back them back. Common sense also tells us that what our partners want from us is love, kindness and sincerity. So, if you really want this person back in your life you must stop sitting around scheming and take the initiative to get what you want. Do not play mind games with them or try to invoke a jealous response from them. Do not pretend they do not exist or that you did not care for them much after all. This will lower your ex’s self esteem and if you really love someone you do not hurt them in any way. Plus, it is simply childish to play games, so unless you are 13 years old, you should go with honesty. Any other way just shows that you do not love them as much as you think you do and you should just move on.
The most common sense thing you can do to win your ex back is to think about what attracted the two of you to each other when you first met .Consider the fun times you had together and what made the relationship special in the first place. By doing this you can pinpoint what changed in the relationship to make things go downhill and end up in separation. And, if you can figure that information out, you have a starting point to begin fixing the problem or problems. Once this happens, reach out to your ex. Tell them you want to have a serious conversation about what happened between the two of you. Let them know that you are not there to beg them to come back or play the anger and blame game. If you use your common sense, you will be able to lay your cards on the table in a cool and calm manner. If you do it right, they will be willing to listen and really hear what you are saying.
Being honest with the person you love is the most common use of common sense. It is very simple. The heart wants what the heart wants and there is nothing more honest and pure than love that comes straight from the heart. If your ex has (or at least understands) common sense, they will know this to be fact and be willing to open up to you in the same fashion. Now that you know the secret answer to the question of how to get your ex back, use it and share it with your friends. The more lovers out there with common sense, the better off we will all be!